If you plan, you might fail...But if you do not plan you are bound to fail...

a sentence which left a great impact on me!... So it was amply clear ki plan to karna padega... be it dating a gal or buying a new mobile phone...

This went on for a long long time... Time changed - people around me changed - I changed - and so did this ideology...

Suddenly I was made to realise the beauty randomness... So the new mantra was

Just be Instinctive...Don't plan at all...Just be yourself and react to situations as they come...

This phase too was very good... drastically different exciting and promising...

Initially i believed in Plan B philosophy... i.e. each and everything needs to have some kind of a back up plan... But now PLAN B so to say lost its place in my head... Strangely so...It was a nice phase...

But as they say it too fizzled out soon... Things more or less average out in both the scenarios...

Now that i have been able to see, do and witness both the sides - in retrospect i can clearly see one large learning coming out of all this...

We as human beings cannot behave randomly; we have to have some way out planned in the back of our minds... we think situations, solutions and simultaneously work towards options in case the desired does not happen. we may say that we don't plan and do things randomly/intuitively on the spot... But the truth is that even this is a plan that we pre-decide to behave randomly... We continue our existence on basis of rationally irrational measures...and continue to be this way wherever we go/whatever happens/whomsoever me meet...

Just want to leave you all with one thought... Plan B is a compromise and we all accept it, when the desired does not happen/things don't turn out to be as planned...